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Walking Away

On sticking it out vs. walking away when times get tough: some musings from experiences recently in several different organizations I’m part of.

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Beloved Community

When I’m despairing of how our groups or wider culture fail to live up to our own values, I find it worthwhile to get back to: what is our vision for how we DO want to live?

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Social Media Policy

Not having a social media policy in your community can lead to uncomfortable, sometimes harmful, conflicts. I was asked recently …

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Making Decisions in a Community

Are you a community or a club? A community or a dictatorship? How your group makes decisions shapes how people experience your community. Decision-making is about relationships!

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Walking Our Talk

Social Justice in Progressive Religious Community There is a lot of evidence that congregations in general – and thus, we …

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Inclusive Pronouns

It’s Pride Month, and time for a reminder on why gender inclusivity and using someone’s pronouns is so important. Language …

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Community’s Challenges

Freethinkers tend to be people who reject dogma and authority. Community requires a certain amount of adaptation and acceptance. What …

Community Matters

In 2023 I initiated this collection (still growing) on my writings on sustaining community, especially in the context of humanism, Unitarian Universalism, and Ethical Culture.